Up Close & Personal

A Memoriam: Edmund Peter Szpaicher
by Coach Bergman

In a town full of character, Ed Szpaicher stood out as a welcoming star, a warm presence, and the best of friends. I’ve known him as a father of my players Brooke and Maddie, a timer at basketball games, a spectator, a golfer, a realtor, a bartender, and especially a friend.
Ed Szpaicher was one of the best human beings that I have ever known. He loved his wife Becky and his three children Mila, Brooke and Maddie. His love for his father, Edmund Jr., sister Kim and brother Mark was well known. His love for his family was always evident wherever you saw them, whether they were at a game, the golf course, or at the restaurants. His love for all people was also evident from the smile on his face whenever you greeted him. Ed was a great human being who always made you feel special in his presence.

If anyone ever had a cause, Eddie was always there to help sell tickets, donate money, or help run the event. We all know that he was a take-charge kind of guy. Whatever there was to do, he always volunteered to do it.

As many of you have, I followed Eddie from his days at Balloons to The Monroe Street Tap Room, to the Barn. We shared many great times together. He  put on a special sixteenth birthday party for my oldest daughter Janeen and barely covered his expenses because that was the type of guy he was.

There were many times he was always there to help. He was there to set up wings and pizza for teams we brought into the restaurants. We can’t count how many game nights we shared both the victories and the defeats.  He treated myself and my coaches as special people, as he did so many that came to see him.

Eddie had that special thing about him that only a few have. He had the ability to share joy and happiness. If you didn’t feel better after seeing him for ten minutes, then shame on you. He made you feel special and that you were important to him and he could always help you have a better day.

The Ellicottville community has lost a truly great individual and I’ve lost the greatest of friends.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Scooty-Bunny/745455031 Scooty Bunny

    SEE YOU EDDIE GOING TO MISS YOU.

  • The Sippy Cup’s

    Well said coach. It is with the greatest sadness that my wife could not make the trip back to NY to be with everyone right now. He and his family, above all else welcomed my wife and I to the inner community of E’ville when our kids transferred to the E’ville School system some eight years ago. It was with great sadness when we left to continue our lives in NC and we spend a great deal of time wishing we were with the gang back in E’ville. It was Ed and his entire family and all the friends who grieve this day for his passing, that made us part of the E’ville landscape. Our hearts are shattered at his passing and our prays go out to the entire Szpaicher family and especially to our dear friend Becky and the Kid’s. God speed Big Ed…we love you.

    Dan & Jackie Sipko & our children,

  • Skiskinick

    Awesome tribute to an AWESOME guy! Eddie’s shoes are just too big to fill. We will all MISS HIM! Thanks Coach! – Elaine, Toledo, OH (and Ellicottville)

  • The Czopka’s

    Everything you said about Eddie in this article is so true. Some people die and eulogies are given painting a false impression of what that person was really like….this is NOT the case with Eddie. He was a huge ball of sunshine that lit up anyone around him and he lived his short life to it’s fullest. This truly is a tragic loss to his family, friends and anyone who knew Eddie. The town will not be the same without him…..he will missed beyond words.Gail & Mike CzopkaOakville, Ontario, Canada

  • Mike Drongosky

    The town of Ellicottville, and for that matter, the entire region lost an ambassador.  He was truly a remarkable man.  Weekends in Ellicottville will never be the same without Eddie.  He really was Mr. Ellicottville to many, many people.  Coach nailed it.  Eddie, your life was way to short, God speed.  Becky, Mila, Brooke, Madison, Edmund, Mark, and Kim our condolences, he is irreplaceable.  While his loss will be felt by many your loss is the greatest.  Mike Drongosky/Cheryl Rintoul aka Mike & Cheryl, the pilot.

  • Ron Weir

    I knew Eddie from my days at the Great Valley Youth Camp. While i was there Mr. Spzaicher was one of my favorite staff members at the camp. When I left the camp and entered Ellicottville Central School as a student in 1993 I would run into Ed all over town. Eddie always made me feel like a million bucks. Anyone who new him knows what I mean. I will always remember him with that warm smile and his “Hey Big Guy”. After I moved South Jim Linsler would always tell me that Eddie asked how I was doing all the time. I was truly blessed to know Ed and he is one of my favorite people of all time. I am where I am today because of Ed Spzachier and others like him that provided me with a boost when I needed it most. Thank you Eddie! My heart goes out to your family. You will be missed , but your influence on me and others will live on forever…

  • Ron Weir

    Szpaicher. Sorry my IPad changed it.

  • Cousin Ronnie from Florida

    I not only lost my cousin, but my best friend. I will mis him so much. And please everyone stay away from the shrimp. Love ya bud.